Busy Old Exciting Old London
London is a busy place.
It’s full of people, full of events, full of tourist
attractions. Whether you’re a born and bred Londoner, or move to the capital
for work, family, or a whole host of other reasons, there are so many people
calling this place home.
Since August, I’ve been one of them.
I moved here for work, a week before starting my new job, and to
say the few months since then have been a whirlwind would be an understatement.
I can count on one hand the number of days I’ve had totally
free, to do nothing at all.
Don’t get me wrong, the things I’ve been doing have been my
choice, and I’ve loved it, but sometimes I’m left wishing I had a bit more time
to do nothing.
What’s so silly about that thought is that it’s totally in my
control. I don’t HAVE to book so many theatre trips, or arrange so many meals
out, or catch up with three different people in a week. But there’s something
about the pace of this city that makes you feel like if you don’t do things NOW
then when on earth will you?
I’ve always been a fairly impatient person, and if I’m going to
do something I want to know the where, when and how immediately, but there’s
something about the energy of this city which has made those impulses in me
even stronger.
And the thing is, there’s so much going on here, you could
easily fill every evening and weekend and not have explored half of the things
you could have. There’s costs of course, as well. You can’t afford to do
everything, frustrating as that can be. Particularly when you’re in such an expensive
city (it’s been a slight shock to the system for this northerner to adjust to!)
I had been warned by people I know who already worked in the
city that there’s an expectation of ‘busyness’. That when they’d be asked what
they were doing at the weekend, or that evening an answer of ‘nothing’ would
draw funny looks. And it’s true! You feel like you SHOULD answer with some
incredibly cultural/virtuous/exciting answer.
Have we forgotten how to be quiet? How to be still?
Even when we’re at home we’re switched on to so many devices,
and through so many social channels.
How often do you just switch off, and take time to just be you?
It’s something I’m consciously trying to do much more of. I love
being busy, but I’m someone who really relishes and NEEDS quiet, alone time.
So now, content in the knowledge I’ve got lots of lovely and
exciting things planned into my diary over the next few months… I’m off to read
my book.
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